A friend told Bruce that men just do not show initiative in dating, so he set the record straight with his sister Jay. Men absolutely plan, pursue, and go all out when they actually care, and the ones who do not are usually telling you exactly how they feel. From there the conversation gets into the real mechanics of a first date: who should pay, why the person who asked should cover the bill, and the one move Bruce says every woman should know about, the pump fake.
They break down what the pump fake actually is, why reaching for your wallet matters even when he plans to pay anyway, and how the whole thing is really a little dance both people are reading in real time. It is a candid, funny, and honest look at initiative, pursuing, and modern dating etiquette from a man's point of view. Members get the full uncut episode and the After Hours conversation that pushes this even further.
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Chapters:
00:00:00 Men Explain Dating Initiative, Pursuing And Pump Faking 101 💯🏀💸
00:01:28 She Said He Wouldn't Pursue: Getting Blamed For No Initiative 🚩💬😅
00:02:53 Men Do Show Up And Make Grand Plans When They Actually Care 💍🔥💪
00:04:53 Pump Fake Explained: Who Truly Pays The Bill On A First Date 💸🍴😤
00:07:21 How To Pump Fake The Right Way: A Dating Tutorial For Women 🏀👛✨
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