Loyalty vs the Bag: Family Wars Nobody Survives
What happens when siblings mix family, money, power, and ego—and nobody wants to back down? In this episode of Unsolicited Perspectives, Bruce Anthony and Jay Aundrea kick off with sibling banter before diving into a jaw-dropping real-life story about a legendary sports dynasty torn apart from the inside. From podcast storytelling lies and internet “life coaches” selling nonsense, to accountability, self-awareness, and a $10 billion decision that permanently fractured a famous family, this episode explores what loyalty really costs. Funny, uncomfortable, and painfully honest—this is one conversation you’ll have opinions about. #familydrama #losangeleslakers #jeaniebuss #johnwick #robertmccall #actionheroes #popculture #unsolicitedperspectives
About The Guest(s):
Bruce Anthony is the host of Unsolicited Perspectives, known for blending humor, cultural critique, and uncomfortable truths.
Jay Aundrea, Bruce’s sister and co-host of Sibling Happy Hour, brings sharp insight, humor, and grounded analysis to complex social and family dynamics.
Key Takeaways:
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Money doesn’t create family conflict—it exposes it.
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Patriarchy often ignores the most capable leader.
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Accountability and self-awareness are learned, not automatic.
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Storytelling loses credibility when truth is exaggerated.
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Power struggles become personal when legacy is involved.
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Loyalty is tested hardest when money enters the room.
Quotes:
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Bruce Anthony: “Sometimes your biggest enemy is you.”
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Jay Aundrea: “Patriarchy really screwed this whole situation.”
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Bruce Anthony: “Once lawyers got involved, Thanksgiving was over.”
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Jay Aundrea: “That promise had nothing to do with those kids.”
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Bruce Anthony: “Money doesn’t change people—it reveals them.”
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Chapters:
00:00:00 Siblings Fight — Who You Picking to Save You? 👊🏽👀🔥
00:00:10 Welcome to Unsolicited Perspectives 🎙️✨📢
01:51 Snowstorm Panic Sparks Power Outage Survival Anxiety ❄️⚡😬
02:39 Bruce Confesses He’s Absolutely Useless Without Electricity 📵😂🧠
04:35 Six Eggs a Day? Protein Math Turns Into a Full Argument 🍳💪🏽🤣
07:07 “He Was Capping” — Calling Out Lies in Podcast Storytelling 🎙️🚩😒
14:45 Internet Life Coaches, Fake Gurus, and Selling Nonsense 💭📉🤨
17:45 Kimbo Slice Wisdom: Realizing You’re Your Own Worst Enemy 🥊🧠🔥
20:18 Accountability, Self-Awareness, and Mental Health Reality 🪞🧘🏽♀️✨
22:17 “Let Me Tell You a Story…” — Sibling War Officially Begins 🧨👨👩👧👦🔥
24:11 Building a Sports Dynasty Inside One Family 🏆🏀💰
26:41 Patriarchy, Succession, and Ignoring the Obvious Heir 👑🚫😤
31:40 Firing a Brother Ignites a Full-Blown Family War 🧑🏽⚖️💥😳
35:15 Secret Siblings & a Family Bombshell 💣🧬😮
40:56 Ten Billion Dollars on the Table — Loyalty vs the Bag 💰🤯⚔️
48:00 When Money Can’t Fix Family Damage 💸💔😔
50:25 Loyalty vs Legacy — Who Really Betrayed Who? 🧬⚖️🔥
56:39 The Kidnapping Hypothetical That Breaks Everyone’s Brain 😳🚨
59:43 Now Flip It — Who Loses to Save You? 😶🔄💀
1:02:51 Can One Person Beat Whole Armies? 🧍🏽♂️⚔️😳
1:06:00 Final Verdict: Humans vs Machines 🧠⚔️🤯
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Siblings Fight — Who You Picking to Save You? 👊🏽👀🔥
[00:00:00] Bruce Anthony: Siblings fight. And who do you pick to defend your life? We gonna get [00:00:05] into it. Let's get it
[00:00:10] [00:00:15]
Welcome to Unsolicited Perspectives 🎙️✨📢
[00:00:18] Bruce Anthony: welcome. [00:00:20] First of all, welcome. This is Unsolicited Perspectives. I'm your host, Bruce Anthony. Here to lead the [00:00:25] conversation in important events and topics that are shaping today's society. Join the [00:00:30] conversation to follow us wherever you get your audio podcast. Subscribe to our YouTube channel for our video podcast, [00:00:35] YouTube exclusive content and our YouTube membership rate review.
Like, comment, [00:00:40] share, share with your friends, share with your family. Hell even share with your [00:00:45] enemies. On today's episode,
Sibling Happy Hour: Sips, Laughs & Sibling Shenanigans 🍹😂
[00:00:47] Bruce Anthony: it's the sibling happy hour. I'm here with my sis Jay [00:00:50] Andrea. We're gonna be dilly Dadd in a little bit. Then I'm gonna be telling you a story about siblings that are [00:00:55] fighting each other, and then me and my sister are gonna pick the teams to save [00:01:00] us if we were kidnapped.
But that's enough of the intro. Let's get to the [00:01:05] show.
[00:01:13] Bruce Anthony: [00:01:10] What else, sis? [00:01:15] I can't call it. I can't call it. You know something.
[00:01:18] Jay Aundrea: What's that?
[00:01:19] Bruce Anthony: [00:01:20] Winter is coming.
[00:01:22] Jay Aundrea: Not just up there down here too.[00:01:25]
[00:01:25] Bruce Anthony: Okay, so this is what I wanna say to all the people out out there. This is coming out [00:01:30] January the 20. Friday, January the 23rd. We are supposed to get a [00:01:35] snowstorm, a really bad snowstorm, I guess both up here and down [00:01:40] there in Atlanta. Up here. It could be really, really bad. They're saying it could be [00:01:45] 24 inches and ice, which means that we [00:01:50] might lose power.
Snowstorm Panic Sparks Power Outage Survival Anxiety ❄️⚡😬
[00:01:51] Bruce Anthony: Unfortunately, if we lose power. I can't upload any [00:01:55] episodes or anything, so. If you don't see anything, and I'll try my [00:02:00] best to put it on the Instagram and Threads or wherever, TikTok or wherever [00:02:05] we are in the social media to let you guys know that there won't be any shows. But that's [00:02:10] only if power gets knocked out from these snowstorms.
And [00:02:15] I'm hoping the power does not get knocked out because I don't know what to do with myself if I don't have any power[00:02:20]
[00:02:20] Jay Aundrea: Yeah, I mean, I mean, you don't, I, of course I have [00:02:25] puzzles, um, board games. I could read a book. There are a [00:02:30] million things I can do without power. That's just fine. But you, I don't know how you're gonna [00:02:35] survive without electricity. I, I honestly am a little worried for you.
Bruce Confesses He’s Absolutely Useless Without Electricity 📵😂🧠
[00:02:39] Bruce Anthony: for [00:02:40] a dude that reads every day all day long, [00:02:45] I'm not picking up no book. And here's the thing, ladies and [00:02:50] gentlemen, I become obsessed and fixated. So when I [00:02:55] read a book. Nothing else is important except for me finishing that [00:03:00] book. Kind of like me with like a a TV series. If I start binging a [00:03:05] TV series, I may have to wake up early in the morning.
I'm gonna see the next episode, [00:03:10] I'm gonna see the next episode, and so I've gotta read the next chapter. I've gotta read the, I won't stop. That's the reason why I [00:03:15] only read on vacations, because that's a designated time where I can just read all [00:03:20] day.
[00:03:20] Jay Aundrea: Yeah.
[00:03:21] Bruce Anthony: So I just read articles and stuff, but I just wanna let the people know I don't know what I'm gonna [00:03:25] do, you know, hopefully.
[00:03:26] Jay Aundrea: of that is electronic. Like you're not reading the [00:03:30] newspaper like you're reading it online.
[00:03:32] Bruce Anthony: Right, right.
[00:03:33] Jay Aundrea: know what you're gonna do.
[00:03:34] Bruce Anthony: Well, I got,[00:03:35]
[00:03:35] Jay Aundrea: conversely, you guys are getting what, like maybe two feet? [00:03:40] We're getting a half inch. a half inch in Atlanta [00:03:45] with ice accumulation like a half inch in Atlanta is [00:03:50] I mean, north Georgia is getting more, but as far as [00:03:55] like City of Atlanta, I mean, that's gonna shut this whole place down. So I'm [00:04:00] going to the grocery store right after this. 'cause I don't have no food.
[00:04:03] Bruce Anthony: It's not coming until Saturday night.[00:04:05]
[00:04:05] Jay Aundrea: Yeah. But everybody is probably
[00:04:08] Bruce Anthony: Yeah. Mm-hmm.
[00:04:09] Jay Aundrea: gonna be [00:04:10] crazy Friday,
[00:04:11] Bruce Anthony: Mm-hmm.
[00:04:12] Jay Aundrea: so we'll go Thursday. And [00:04:15] I'm saying it's gonna be crazy Thursday and Friday, so I'm gonna go on Wednesday.[00:04:20]
[00:04:21] Bruce Anthony: Uh, just to let you know, I did it the last weekend. Amazon, I, [00:04:25] I'm, I, I did it at your house. Amazon deliveries be working, I got [00:04:30] 18 eggs or a dollar and bought five things or 18 eggs [00:04:35] now.
Six Eggs a Day? Protein Math Turns Into a Full Argument 🍳💪🏽🤣
[00:04:35] Jay Aundrea: Eggs is only good for about two, three weeks.
[00:04:38] Bruce Anthony: But I, I did the [00:04:40] math and that's 18 eggs a week for five weeks. Right. [00:04:45] And that ain't nothing but three breakfasts, so it [00:04:50] worked out.
[00:04:52] Jay Aundrea: you have six eggs and a breakfast. [00:04:55] What?
[00:04:56] Bruce Anthony: Yes, I'm 200 and like 35 [00:05:00] pounds. I mean,
[00:05:00] Jay Aundrea: I eat one egg
[00:05:03] Bruce Anthony: Yes.
[00:05:03] Jay Aundrea: slices of bacon.
[00:05:04] Bruce Anthony: [00:05:05] Right. You don't, you don't need as much protein as I need.
[00:05:08] Jay Aundrea: [00:05:10] Six egg.
[00:05:10] Bruce Anthony: Yes,
[00:05:11] Jay Aundrea: I didn't know you ate that. I didn't know.
[00:05:13] Bruce Anthony: yes. I eat a lot of [00:05:15] protein. You saw how much chicken I eat.
[00:05:18] Jay Aundrea: yeah, you, you, yeah. [00:05:20] You eat
[00:05:20] Bruce Anthony: Yeah. I eat, I eat, I You got to head up Protein, you gotta feed the beast. [00:05:25] Um, so gentlemen, don't, don't be, you [00:05:30] know, upset with us if no episodes come out next week, because up here we're supposed to [00:05:35] get it bad. Not as bad as some other places. They're saying some other places they're gonna get three [00:05:40] inches of ice.
[00:05:42] Jay Aundrea: Yeah. That's crazy.
[00:05:43] Bruce Anthony: It is crazy. They're [00:05:45] saying some people could lose power like Texas did that one time where they, Texas didn't have no power [00:05:50] for like a a year. Texas did.
[00:05:52] Jay Aundrea: it wasn't a year, but it was a [00:05:55] really long time.
[00:05:56] Bruce Anthony: was something close to that.
[00:05:57] Jay Aundrea: they're on that like [00:06:00] grid, that's like, it's the companies that run it, or the state runs it or something. [00:06:05] It is
[00:06:05] Bruce Anthony: Mm-hmm.
[00:06:07] Jay Aundrea: and, um, with [00:06:10] their power grid. And I definitely hope that does not happen them again.
[00:06:14] Bruce Anthony: [00:06:15] No, because people died.
[00:06:15] Jay Aundrea: don't think it's gonna, yeah, I don't, I, I'm, I'm hoping the cold weather and [00:06:20] all that, snow and ice does not reach Texas.
[00:06:23] Bruce Anthony: No, it's gonna hit [00:06:25] Texas.
[00:06:25] Jay Aundrea: Oh,
[00:06:26] Bruce Anthony: no, it's gonna hit Texas. Yeah,
[00:06:28] Jay Aundrea: I am praying for, you know, Atlanta will [00:06:30] just be inconvenienced, like, we won't be able to go anywhere. Probably my power will go out. [00:06:35] Um, know, but. Um, definitely hoping not to see a, a [00:06:40] repeat of what happened, uh, in Texas last time.
[00:06:42] Bruce Anthony: Well, all I know is as long as [00:06:45] my power don't go out, this is heaven sent. That means I ain't gotta leave a house for nothing for a couple days. And I [00:06:50] got an excuse. I mean, I don't leave a house anyway, but I got an excuse not to leave a house. [00:06:55] Uh, this wasn't the only thing that I wanted to talk about though, in the dilly dabbling.
You sent me something [00:07:00] earlier today, and it was this morning where I opened it and it was, [00:07:05] um, guy,
“He Was Capping” — Calling Out Lies in Podcast Storytelling 🎙️🚩😒
[00:07:07] Jay Aundrea: Tori?
[00:07:07] Bruce Anthony: Tori on a podcast [00:07:10] talking about filming the movie life. And he talked about [00:07:15] some racist happenings that happened on life. Now, I completely believe that [00:07:20] some racist happenings happened on American history X 'cause Edward Norton is a method [00:07:25] actor.
Supposedly they had some real skinheads, so I could believe [00:07:30] that.
[00:07:30] Jay Aundrea: Yeah.
[00:07:31] Bruce Anthony: Said immediately when you sent me that video, he was capping [00:07:35] about racism, a specific thing where a stick figure with a noose [00:07:40] was found around his neck on the set. Like that didn't happen. And, and people get on these [00:07:45] podcasts and start capping, they start embellishing.
And that's a problem [00:07:50] with old people anyway. 'cause Guy is not young. Guy is got me [00:07:55] by 10 years. Okay? He's in his fifties easily. Um, [00:08:00] the older you get, the stories you tell, because 50, so he's almost 60 [00:08:05] years old. The older you get, the stories that you tell get crazier and [00:08:10] crazier and crazier.
[00:08:11] Jay Aundrea: is. The old, we had to walk 15 miles and, and [00:08:15] six feet of snow to get to school type of thing. You know that old [00:08:20] people here we had, they're like, man, shut up. No you didn't with no [00:08:25] shoes on. And he
[00:08:26] Bruce Anthony: Right?
With no shoes on.
[00:08:27] Jay Aundrea: I think. That there [00:08:30] might have been incidents that could be construed as [00:08:35] racist on the set, and that Eddie maybe once, [00:08:40] maybe twice, had to say something or have someone removed or something [00:08:45] like that. Yes, I think that's the, whatever the story was, I can't remember. [00:08:50] Some guy said, some
[00:08:53] Bruce Anthony: It was the picket. It was, it was the [00:08:55] picket you, the pickax stand where supposedly the guy was swinging the pickax and one of the, [00:09:00] one of the crews said, Hey, that's not how you swinging a pickax. And Eddie was like, Hey man, don't talk to him like that. [00:09:05] And, and the guy wasn't on the crew any longer. Like, yes, I do believe stuff like [00:09:10] that, but the noose around the neck, nah, I don't believe that.
[00:09:13] Jay Aundrea: but did it go down like that? Like [00:09:15] as a, a racist incident? I don't think so. I don't think that the [00:09:20] response was, Hey, we know how to swing a pickax. We've been swinging a pickax, [00:09:25] you
[00:09:25] Bruce Anthony: Right. Yeah.
[00:09:26] Jay Aundrea: because those are actors, they don't know how to swing a pickax. [00:09:30] There are some things that are just not inherent to us on the strength of us being [00:09:35] black, like
[00:09:35] Bruce Anthony: I've never swung a pickax. Am I Tyler? I don't know how I swung a pickax. You just [00:09:40] swing it, right? Just swing it.
[00:09:41] Jay Aundrea: know how to play the base, you know what I'm saying? Like, [00:09:45] there are some things like, don't just assume all [00:09:50] black people can do this or do do this. Like, so yeah. Do I feel like [00:09:55] he was probably putting 20 on, on five? Yes.
[00:09:58] Bruce Anthony: Not a hundred on 10, 20 [00:10:00] on five. That's a, that's a new one. I ain't heard that one before.
[00:10:03] Jay Aundrea: You know, it's a little [00:10:05] bit, but it's, it's harmless. Like, so
[00:10:07] Bruce Anthony: But that's not harmless. That [00:10:10] particular story about the noose is not harmless. And the reason why immediately I said [00:10:15] kain is because. I'm such a nerd [00:10:20] anytime. They always have these little tidbits documentaries on things you didn't [00:10:25] know about this movie or this book, or this TV series. I'm watching all this time and I'm always [00:10:30] watching interviews specifically about life because I want to hear any story that's about Bernie [00:10:35] Mac.
If that had happened,
[00:10:38] Jay Aundrea: Somebody would've said
[00:10:39] Bruce Anthony: somebody [00:10:40] would've at least hinted about it a little bit,
[00:10:43] Jay Aundrea: Yeah. Especially if it was something that [00:10:45] Eddie responded to personally
[00:10:48] Bruce Anthony: right?
[00:10:49] Jay Aundrea: to a, [00:10:50] I think his overall message was, Hey, Eddie really looked out for [00:10:55] us and it on this set. And made sure that we were treated well. Like that [00:11:00] could have just been the story. But in order to make it entertaining, because [00:11:05] again, remember at his core guy, Tori is a comedian, he's a standup comedian. So in [00:11:10] order to make it entertaining, you know, you put a little extra little sauce on it. Yeah. I'm [00:11:15] sure there was a doll with a noose around his neck, found [00:11:20] in on set, more people would have told that story for sure.[00:11:25]
[00:11:25] Bruce Anthony: Absolutely
[00:11:26] Jay Aundrea: but I think the general message is probably [00:11:30] once Eddie had to stand up for them and somebody got fired, and [00:11:35] from Guy Torah's perspective, from that moment on, Eddie Murphy was not just his comedic [00:11:40] hero, but his, you know,
[00:11:41] Bruce Anthony: his hero. Hero.
Yeah.
Well, it, it [00:11:45] just, it got, you know, when you sent that to me and, and you know, I watch a lot of these interview [00:11:50] podcasts just because I'm like, one, I'm always watching just to [00:11:55] see, to learn how to interview better, right? Like, I'm
trying to interview better and I [00:12:00] figure the people that,
[00:12:00] Jay Aundrea: the wrong paragraph, like, uh,
[00:12:03] Bruce Anthony: well, no,
[00:12:03] Jay Aundrea: guys are[00:12:05]
[00:12:05] Bruce Anthony: well, well, sometimes they show you what not to do.
[00:12:09] Jay Aundrea: Yeah.[00:12:10]
[00:12:10] Bruce Anthony: Sometimes, sometimes you can learn from these interviewers, the beats and [00:12:15] how there's a lull and how, and I pick up on it like, oh, come on. They [00:12:20] need to speed up the conversation. They need to, this person that they're [00:12:25] interviewing is having a hard time finding words, put words out there to see if that, that helps speed [00:12:30] up the conversation.
I watch,
I watch, I see these interview podcasts a lot of times, [00:12:35] and they don't edit out the long. Pauses. [00:12:40] We don't have long pauses. Uh, just by the nature of the way we talk, I [00:12:45] don't like a lot of dead space unless we chuckling. But a lot of [00:12:50] these people, whatever, I'm not gonna critique these people. What I have found out is these people get [00:12:55] on these podcasts and just start saying anything and it, and it could be a nobody or it could be [00:13:00] like a celebrity.
And I'm like, that's not true. Ryan Davis just got interviewed on [00:13:05] Club Shehe and I was like, you know what? It feels like [00:13:10] a lot of what he's saying is absolutely fact. And then there might be a little bit [00:13:15] of embellishment on some of these stories 'cause you get going and you just like, man, lemme put a hundred on [00:13:20] 10 real quick.
Or as you say, 20 on five.
[00:13:23] Jay Aundrea: right, like, it's like Kat [00:13:25] Williams. Right
[00:13:26] Bruce Anthony: But it
[00:13:27] Jay Aundrea: Chache. That felt a, a lot of it [00:13:30] felt like embellishment,
[00:13:32] Bruce Anthony: mm-hmm.
[00:13:33] Jay Aundrea: um, especially when talking [00:13:35] about like his past and his like educational upbringing and all that. I read [00:13:40] 89,000 books in two months. Like, it was like, oh, didn't, [00:13:45] um, but all right. Like, you know, or, [00:13:50] uh, or Jaguar.
Right. You know, like it was a
[00:13:52] Bruce Anthony: I get Jaguar, right? I but some people,[00:13:55]
some people have them on there just to be who they are. 'cause that's going to [00:14:00] drive numbers. Ladies and gentlemen, that'll never be us anytime. And I have interviewed people, I've stopped the [00:14:05] interview dead in the middle of the interview and be like, I can't continue on with this.
And, and they're like, what [00:14:10] do you mean? I was like, you're not telling the truth like this. This didn't happen because I do my [00:14:15] research before I interview somebody.
I was like, this, this is n no, this isn't true. [00:14:20] Like, I'm sorry, I just can't continue on. This will never air. Thank you for your time. Goodbye. [00:14:25] Um, but thi this is a interesting.
This [00:14:30] is an interesting segue into the final thing I want to talk about in Dilly [00:14:35] Daddling. And another thing that you didn't send me but just popped [00:14:40] up right after you sent me that video, I got on Explorer and just was [00:14:45] exploring
Internet Life Coaches, Fake Gurus, and Selling Nonsense 💭📉🤨
[00:14:45] Jay Aundrea: Mm-hmm.
[00:14:46] Bruce Anthony: these mindset coaches. I'm, I'm in, I'm on my high [00:14:50] horse right now telling people stop doing exactly the same stuff that I do.
So [00:14:55] these, my, these mindset coaches be killing me and, and [00:15:00] self-help coaches. And they supposed to set your mind to, to be able to [00:15:05] focus on the things that you need to be able to focus on like a life coach.
[00:15:09] Jay Aundrea: Oh, okay.
[00:15:09] Bruce Anthony: [00:15:10] But they, it, it's like a life.
[00:15:11] Jay Aundrea: I believe in like life coaching.
[00:15:13] Bruce Anthony: I, I, [00:15:15] yes, you do. 'cause you believe in mentors.
[00:15:18] Jay Aundrea: Yeah. Okay. [00:15:20] I, I think the way sometimes life coaching is, is [00:15:25] packaged and sold particularly to black women.
[00:15:28] Bruce Anthony: Mm.
[00:15:28] Jay Aundrea: it feels like a [00:15:30] lot of, um, very obvious things like [00:15:35] that. It, it doesn't feel like any new information, [00:15:40] know?
[00:15:40] Bruce Anthony: Mm.
[00:15:40] Jay Aundrea: Um, it just, it doesn't feel personalized. It [00:15:45] just feels like a bunch of people trying to get rich
[00:15:48] Bruce Anthony: Mm-hmm.
[00:15:49] Jay Aundrea: of selling you [00:15:50] some sort of ebook or seminar or something like that.
[00:15:53] Bruce Anthony: Yeah.
[00:15:54] Jay Aundrea: they'd be [00:15:55] gobbling it up and I'd be like, y'all, I've been to a couple, and I was like, girl, this is some bull. Like [00:16:00] this is, have told chat. GPT could have told you all of this. [00:16:05] Like, you didn't need to come pay $120 for this seminar.
[00:16:09] Bruce Anthony: Not to toot [00:16:10] my own horn, but toot toot, because I'm a fitness [00:16:15] professional. That's not just what I do because you have personal [00:16:20] relationship. The the shortest, the shortest amount of time I have with any of my current clients, I think it's two [00:16:25] years right now.
[00:16:26] Jay Aundrea: Okay.
[00:16:26] Bruce Anthony: all of them are over two years. One is, we're [00:16:30] starting our, I think it's 15th or 16th year together.
[00:16:33] Jay Aundrea: Mm-hmm.[00:16:35]
[00:16:35] Bruce Anthony: These are people that tell me about their life
[00:16:38] Jay Aundrea: Yeah.
[00:16:39] Bruce Anthony: because you [00:16:40] spend two, three hours with a person a week, they're gonna talk about their life,
[00:16:44] Jay Aundrea: [00:16:45] Yes.
[00:16:45] Bruce Anthony: and they ask me my opinion on things. And, and to me, it's all very [00:16:50] common sense, right? Like, oh, okay, this is what you're going through. This is what's going to [00:16:55] happen.
You should probably do this. Right? That's, so somebody [00:17:00] told me recently, they're like, you're not just a a, a body coach. You're a mind and [00:17:05] body coach. You're like a life coach. And I was like, oh, okay. But I would never,
[00:17:08] Jay Aundrea: have to be both,
[00:17:09] Bruce Anthony: but I would never [00:17:10] sell myself as that, right? I would never say I'm gonna be a life coach.
But this [00:17:15] one video that popped up was from a mindset coach, and I'm not even gonna promote them because I [00:17:20] went on that other stuff and I was just like, he. He's spreading a bunch of [00:17:25] bull. But in this one particular video, you remember Kimbo Slice, he was the street fighter [00:17:30] from, uh, Florida. Okay.
Kimbo Slice got invited [00:17:35] to be in one of the tough enough contests in the UFC,
and it was the [00:17:40] first time he had ever been away from his family and like really alone with his thoughts.
And he said something and I was [00:17:45] like, I
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[00:17:45] Bruce Anthony: agree with it. He said, I've always been fighting the enemy. [00:17:50] But I've realized through this time, me being by myself that the [00:17:55] enemy is the inner me. It's not an outside [00:18:00] thing, it's me on the inside. Now I see your face, [00:18:05] but I believe it's true sometimes our biggest [00:18:10] ops,
[00:18:10] Jay Aundrea: unique thought
[00:18:11] Bruce Anthony: I, I know it was, it was unique for Kimbo Slice.
Okay. [00:18:15] But.
[00:18:15] Jay Aundrea: and No, I mean, I've heard that exact same thing before,
[00:18:18] Bruce Anthony: I've heard it too, but it [00:18:20] just resonated with me today. Right?
[00:18:22] Jay Aundrea: Okay.
[00:18:23] Bruce Anthony: Like a lot of times your [00:18:25] biggest op is you. When I look at all my romantic relationships, [00:18:30] I could easily say, man, these women I that, uh, I deal with crazy as hell, [00:18:35] or I have a poor chaste in judging [00:18:40] people that I date. The common denominator.
[00:18:45] Both can be true, but the common denominator is why, right? When I'm looking at my bank [00:18:50] account and I'm like, how the hell did this happen? I know just how the hell it happened.
[00:18:54] Jay Aundrea: Yeah.[00:18:55]
[00:18:55] Bruce Anthony: It happened because of me. That's right. So I was like, okay, this is cool. This is [00:19:00] something that is, is good for, for this mindset coach to put out.
Because a lot of people [00:19:05] always try to blame outside factors for those circumstances and don't wanna look within IE, [00:19:10] the president of the United States. But, but I was like, okay, this [00:19:15] is good. Then I went on their other stuff and I was like, this is some bull. So ladies and gentlemen,
the [00:19:20] point of this is saying sometimes you could pick up stuff from a person.
That'd be wrong [00:19:25] half the time. A broke clock is right twice.
[00:19:27] Jay Aundrea: Yeah. Yeah.
[00:19:29] Bruce Anthony: But what [00:19:30] you think about that the, the inner me is my enemy.
[00:19:33] Jay Aundrea: yeah. Again, that's [00:19:35] not.
[00:19:38] Bruce Anthony: Like, I thought this was gonna be some [00:19:40] huge payoff. But Bruce, I done heard that before.
[00:19:42] Jay Aundrea: no. Yeah, I've heard it before. Um, [00:19:45] I think, uh, yeah, that's not [00:19:50] Okay. Well, good for, good for him. Uh,
[00:19:54] Bruce Anthony: Slice, [00:19:55] he passed away, unfortunately.
[00:19:57] Jay Aundrea: you know, [00:20:00] I think is just a part of any mental health journey is like, [00:20:05] okay, I need to take stock of ways in which I contribute to the chaos in my [00:20:10] life.
Like, everybody has to do that. The enemy is for [00:20:15] everyone. The inner me.
[00:20:18] Bruce Anthony: Yeah.
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[00:20:18] Jay Aundrea: it always is,
[00:20:19] Bruce Anthony: [00:20:20] Well a lot of, A lot of people out there do not see that. A lot of people do not take [00:20:25] accountability ever. It is never their fault.
[00:20:28] Jay Aundrea: that's like a [00:20:30] huge thing that a lot of people are pushing for is that people be accountable.
[00:20:34] Bruce Anthony: Yeah, [00:20:35] that's
bad.
[00:20:37] Jay Aundrea: and to have some sort of like, you know, [00:20:40] um, I can't think of the word I'm trying to use, but it just have some kind [00:20:45] of like, understanding of self Right.
[00:20:49] Bruce Anthony: Self-awareness.[00:20:50]
[00:20:50] Jay Aundrea: self-awareness, there we go.
[00:20:51] Bruce Anthony: Mm-hmm.
[00:20:52] Jay Aundrea: To have some self-awareness and be accountable. This is, that's [00:20:55] not, this is not new concepts. Yeah. You gotta, I mean, but All right. [00:21:00] You know, good for him for coming to that,
[00:21:02] Bruce Anthony: I mean, he was a Bohemian man from [00:21:05] Florida
[00:21:05] Jay Aundrea: yeah.
[00:21:06] Bruce Anthony: that I don't think graduated high school in 2008 [00:21:10] was
[00:21:10] Jay Aundrea: a Bahamian.
[00:21:11] Bruce Anthony: right. That one.
[00:21:13] Jay Aundrea: Okay.
[00:21:13] Bruce Anthony: That one. Look, [00:21:15] I'm not a mindset life coach or a verbal coach [00:21:20] for bolt coach. Yeah, I messed that word up too. I'm gonna get us the hell out of this [00:21:25] segment, but before I do, speaking of accountability,
[00:21:30] Jay, I'm going to tell you a story about some siblings that you won't believe,
[00:21:34] Jay Aundrea: Oh [00:21:35] boy.
[00:21:35] Bruce Anthony: and that's coming up.
Next.
[00:21:46] Bruce Anthony: [00:21:40] [00:21:45] Jay? What if I told you [00:21:50] that a family that was responsible for a sports [00:21:55] franchise had nothing but internal and [00:22:00] fighting that has caused six siblings to almost be bitter [00:22:05] enemies?
[00:22:06] Jay Aundrea: I would say that that makes, uh, complete sense.[00:22:10]
[00:22:10] Bruce Anthony: Hold on. Now, I want you to do, I'm gonna tell a story, but don't [00:22:15] worry, I want you to interject with questions.
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[00:22:17] Bruce Anthony: Little interludes, right? And, and, [00:22:20] but why do you say that makes complete sense.
[00:22:23] Jay Aundrea: First of all, it's [00:22:25] six of 'em. So if you take six people and have [00:22:30] them do any singular task, gonna run into obstacles. 'cause [00:22:35] that's a lot of cooks in the kitchen. Then you make them siblings, [00:22:40] so now they know each other intimately.
[00:22:43] Bruce Anthony: Mm-hmm.
[00:22:43] Jay Aundrea: like, they know each [00:22:45] other deeply. They're siblings that's going, that adds a whole [00:22:50] other layer of complexity to a working relationship.
[00:22:54] Bruce Anthony: [00:22:55] Mm-hmm.
[00:22:55] Jay Aundrea: Okay. Then you throw in a lot of [00:23:00] money.
[00:23:00] Bruce Anthony: A lot of money.
[00:23:02] Jay Aundrea: That's a recipe for [00:23:05] disaster.
[00:23:06] Bruce Anthony: You are right. It's an age old thing [00:23:10] of a family coming from something, a family dynasty, even [00:23:15] royalty,
where siblings would stab each other in the back for that prize. Right? [00:23:20] I can't identify with it because the [00:23:25] three of us, even though we've had ups and downs through the years, are pretty solid.[00:23:30]
[00:23:30] Jay Aundrea: Yeah.
[00:23:30] Bruce Anthony: But I can see how there could be fraction, [00:23:35] because even in the dynamic of the three of us,
each one thinks the other [00:23:40] two is a click.
[00:23:42] Jay Aundrea: Yes.
[00:23:43] Bruce Anthony: It's been accused, right? They has [00:23:45] been accused that by our brother, that we're a clique. It's been accused by you that I and [00:23:50] our, and our brother are a clique. It's been accused by me that you and our brother are a clique. Like, and [00:23:55] it's like, no, we're, we're all one clique, but we all have different [00:24:00] relationships with each sibling.
Yes. Well, the patriarch of the [00:24:05] family, the father,
[00:24:06] Jay Aundrea: Mm-hmm.
[00:24:08] Bruce Anthony: brilliant man, wanted a [00:24:10] sports franchise
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[00:24:11] Bruce Anthony: and bought one. And the sports franchise had some [00:24:15] history, but not a whole lot of history.
[00:24:20] Uh, but it was in a major market, and he turned this franchise into a [00:24:25] dynasty
[00:24:26] Jay Aundrea: Nice.
[00:24:27] Bruce Anthony: and ruled that sports league [00:24:30] for decades. He had four children.[00:24:35]
[00:24:35] Jay Aundrea: Mm-hmm.
[00:24:36] Bruce Anthony: Two boys, two girls, when he started the [00:24:40] franchise, of course, he hoped his oldest son would go ahead and be his right [00:24:45] hand man and be able to take over the family business, be just like him.
[00:24:48] Jay Aundrea: Mm-hmm.
[00:24:49] Bruce Anthony: His [00:24:50] older son wasn't like him, didn't really care about the [00:24:55] business. Dibbled and dabbled a little bit, but wasn't really into it.
The oldest [00:25:00] daughter, well, she wasn't really into sports like that. She did some other stuff. [00:25:05] The next son, he would rather go out there and do sports [00:25:10] on his own, didn't really care about the business, but one of his daughters was [00:25:15] exactly like him, kind of like you and our father. It was exactly like him [00:25:20] and wanted nothing more, nothing more to eventually take over and [00:25:25] run the business.
But there's a problem. Because this is the old times. And of [00:25:30] course a woman can't run a men's sports league team, franchise organization [00:25:35] can't be, has to be one of his sons. But each time he tries to bring in the [00:25:40] sons. That kind of show interest kind of don't show interest. They wanna show, do their own life.[00:25:45]
But the daughter always shows interest. [00:25:50] Eventually he divorces his wife
[00:25:53] Jay Aundrea: Mm-hmm.
[00:25:53] Bruce Anthony: and sometime [00:25:55] down the road he gets remarried and has two more kids. Two more sons.
Now [00:26:00] the age difference between the oldest and the youngest is 31 years.
They little [00:26:05] kids,
[00:26:05] Jay Aundrea: Yeah.
[00:26:07] Bruce Anthony: a against adults, all of them are adults. These are [00:26:10] little kids.
They grew up with a different father because as the [00:26:15] patriarch of the family was building this dynasty, it wasn't really home that much. [00:26:20] Oh, by the way. Papa was a rolling stone. So he [00:26:25] was out there in the mix doing that. He's rich. He owns a sports, uh, franchise. He's out [00:26:30] there living his life. Okay.
[00:26:32] Jay Aundrea: Yeah.
[00:26:33] Bruce Anthony: That daughter, though, is [00:26:35] always there by his side.
So finally it comes time, time where the [00:26:40] old man is starting to get old.
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[00:26:41] Bruce Anthony: And so he has gotta decide how, [00:26:45] how this is gonna happen with the family. 'cause his hope is, his dream is, [00:26:50] is that his children and his grandchildren continue on running the [00:26:55] franchise, right? And he throws all types of stuff in there to make it [00:27:00] incentive that they would never sell the team.
He does a prepay on [00:27:05] inheritance tax. He structures, uh, things a certain way. So [00:27:10] grandkids are part of trustees, so they will always be taken care of.[00:27:15]
He structures everything right, and he puts each kid kind of in place. All [00:27:20] of them have different jobs within the organization, but the one [00:27:25] daughter is pretty much the one running things, right?
She handles the business side. [00:27:30] One of the sons is getting interested in running the sports side. [00:27:35] Papa dies,
and of course the infighting starts. Now, [00:27:40] just from the first part of this story, what is your initial [00:27:45] thoughts about what's going on with this family?
[00:27:49] Jay Aundrea: [00:27:50] Um, patriarchy's trash.[00:27:55]
[00:27:55] Bruce Anthony: True.
[00:27:55] Jay Aundrea: the whole time he could have just been, you know, preparing [00:28:00] the child who was interested in taking [00:28:05] over, could have just been preparing them and setting [00:28:10] everybody up with their little trust funds or whatever rich people do, them on the payroll somehow. [00:28:15] I don't know how rich people live their lives that don't have nothing to do with me, but [00:28:20] instead holding out hope, [00:28:25] um, for people who that interested or but wanna [00:28:30] do things their own way.
So they're not really interested in working. [00:28:35] Him like apprenticing or, or doing what they need to do to got like get up to [00:28:40] speed. So it's like, wow, the patriarchy really [00:28:45] screwed him on this because he could have already had all of this [00:28:50] and done before he even got that second [00:28:55] wife. Honestly. Um, he could have already been saying, [00:29:00] okay, child is taking over 'cause they're the ones that showed interest and [00:29:05] aptitude for it. And that's how this is gonna go. But [00:29:10] instead, patriarchy.
[00:29:12] Bruce Anthony: Right now that daughter does [00:29:15] explicitly become controlling owner, but it's on the business [00:29:20] side. Right. This, the business, one of the son that's been actively in it [00:29:25] has, is doing the, the, the sports side. And the two youngest son are [00:29:30] involved too. They're doing the sports side as well with like analytics and [00:29:35] scouting.
And lo and little, [00:29:40] little Birdie told him that they'll be the ones running things because the way this [00:29:45] was structured was that when e when a sibling dies, their [00:29:50] shares get divided up between the rest of the siblings. So it's [00:29:55] essentially. The last person that lives gets [00:30:00] it all. And of course they're 31 years apart.
So [00:30:05] immediately when the dad dies, some of the older siblings, two [00:30:10] of them outta the four to be exactly like mom, we just sell. When the, when the dad [00:30:15] explicitly was like, nah, I don't want y'all to sell. I want you to. But the valuation [00:30:20] of this franchise is growing so much that it's [00:30:25] starting to be like, man, we throwing money away.
Besides the business model [00:30:30] of this sports league is changing,
owners used to be millionaires, they're now [00:30:35] billionaires, and now it's getting harder to compete with billionaires. You think 'cause you a [00:30:40] millionaire, you cool, but you ain't a billionaire. It's a totally different ballgame.
[00:30:44] Jay Aundrea: Yeah.[00:30:45]
[00:30:46] Bruce Anthony: Now what happens is this, once dominant [00:30:50] sports franchise is no longer that dominant.
They have a [00:30:55] whole lot of lean years. Don't make the playoffs for a lot of years. [00:31:00] In the previous 20 years, they had only missed the playoffs twice. When Papa was [00:31:05] alive, after he died for 11 years, seven years, they did not make the [00:31:10] playoffs. They only made the playoffs four times.
So one of the brothers is the one handling the [00:31:15] basketball side.
So what does that mean,
[00:31:17] Jay Aundrea: So now I know it's NBA[00:31:20]
[00:31:20] Bruce Anthony: damnit? I was trying to keep, it
[00:31:24] Jay Aundrea: narrows it [00:31:25] down.
[00:31:27] Bruce Anthony: was handling the sports side. Right, [00:31:30] but they not winning. So what do you think happened next?[00:31:35]
[00:31:36] Jay Aundrea: Sis fired him probably.
[00:31:38] Bruce Anthony: fired him,
[00:31:39] Jay Aundrea: [00:31:40] Yeah.
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[00:31:40] Bruce Anthony: but he was thinking when you can't fire me, I'm part owner. [00:31:45] She was like, I fired you from that job, not from you being owner.
So the [00:31:50] other brother, the other brother was like, no, you can't do that to us.
He didn't get [00:31:55] fired. He was just like, you can't do that. So those two brothers joined [00:32:00] forces
to try and steal the franchise from her. Not [00:32:05] her portion, like her ownership, but control. So she's no longer in control. So [00:32:10] they tried to maneuver this way to create a board and they had to go to court and everything.
And the [00:32:15] judge was like, no. It says in the dad's will,
she [00:32:20] is the controlling owner. She has the right to fire you. But [00:32:25] guess what happens now? The siblings ain't rocking with her.
[00:32:29] Jay Aundrea: yeah. [00:32:30] But, but this is, listen, this is just business [00:32:35] and you're, it is been 11 years, seven of which we have not made it to the [00:32:40] playoffs, which means it gotta be some changes.
[00:32:43] Bruce Anthony: Right? [00:32:45] So
[00:32:45] Jay Aundrea: not doing the, you're not doing the things,
[00:32:48] Bruce Anthony: Right.
[00:32:48] Jay Aundrea: not making the things [00:32:50] happen.
[00:32:52] Bruce Anthony: Look,
[00:32:52] Jay Aundrea: you gotta go?
[00:32:53] Bruce Anthony: once lawyers got [00:32:55] involved, Thanksgiving was over, right? Like it became personal. No longer professional. They took [00:33:00] great offense to that, probably because they always felt that they were supposed to be the heir parents [00:33:05] because they were the men, right? It was supposed to go to them. Funny [00:33:10] thing, because there's now six of them, and the two youngest are adults [00:33:15] now working with the organization.
They sided with the sister. They had [00:33:20] grown close to the sister,
they had become friends with the sister. [00:33:25] The organization makes a big deal about signing a player. [00:33:30] We go down the road for a little while. They make a big deal about signing a player
and the [00:33:35] new gm, the new basketball op, dammit, the new. [00:33:40] This new basketball operations guy
is doing a press conference [00:33:45] announcing this huge signing and he's starting to thank people and he thanks.
One of the [00:33:50] brothers that tried to overrule the person that put [00:33:55] him in place, the sister.
And so the two younger brothers was like, wait a minute. That's a little [00:34:00] confusing. Why is he thinking the brother that was trying to take over? So one of the [00:34:05] younger brothers calls the sister, the owner, right? The controlling owner calls the [00:34:10] sister and was like, yo, what's this about?
And the conversation takes a left hand turn. [00:34:15] Their mother, the four siblings, mother is dying. [00:34:20] It came out that before the oldest son was [00:34:25] born, the mother and the father had a daughter, but they didn't [00:34:30] have any money. So they gave the daughter up for adoption, for [00:34:35] adoption, adoption.
[00:34:36] Jay Aundrea: Mm-hmm.
[00:34:37] Bruce Anthony: You know, with all this 23 and Me stuff, [00:34:40] she was trying to find her family, found out that she's related to [00:34:45] this famous family.
She didn't come in for no money or nothing like that. She just wanted to get to know [00:34:50] her family.
[00:34:51] Jay Aundrea: Yeah.
[00:34:52] Bruce Anthony: Another secret came out
[00:34:54] Jay Aundrea: Okay.[00:34:55]
[00:34:55] Bruce Anthony: the mother and father of the four kids, because they [00:35:00] gave that daughter up for adoption and she never wanted to have kids, [00:35:05] like half kids, right? She made him promise the [00:35:10] patriarch.
She made him promise that he would never have kids outside of [00:35:15] her.
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[00:35:16] Bruce Anthony: This all comes out later now, and so the sister [00:35:20] that's running the organization finds out about this.
[00:35:22] Jay Aundrea: Mm-hmm.
[00:35:24] Bruce Anthony: And so when the younger [00:35:25] brother calls, she's letting him know about an older sister that they had, that they just [00:35:30] found out about it and then makes the comment that, yeah, [00:35:35] mom and dad had an agreement that there was not gonna be any other kids besides the four of us, [00:35:40] so you should have never been born.
[00:35:45] Now I'm gonna take a pause for part three and [00:35:50] just from the little bit that I gave you, what do you think about all of that?[00:35:55]
[00:35:56] Jay Aundrea: She said that to her two younger
[00:35:58] Bruce Anthony: It's [00:36:00] said that she didn't, but they said that she [00:36:05] did.
[00:36:05] Jay Aundrea: so,[00:36:10]
[00:36:10] Bruce Anthony: Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.
[00:36:11] Jay Aundrea: Well, [00:36:15] should not have said that if even, [00:36:20] if the, the, the, the promise between two [00:36:25] adults does not have anything to do with the children. Um, [00:36:30] so they made a promise, but [00:36:35] he got, she passed away, or No, she didn't pass away. He got remarried.
[00:36:39] Bruce Anthony: Mm-hmm.
[00:36:39] Jay Aundrea: He got, [00:36:40] they got divorced and he got remarried and he had two more kids.
So like [00:36:45] he didn't keep the promise. I, I think that's kind of a ridiculous promise to make. [00:36:50] they could like, obviously, [00:36:55] well, I'm sure she knew he was a rolling stone,
[00:36:58] Bruce Anthony: Oh, yeah. She knew. Mm-hmm.
[00:36:59] Jay Aundrea: [00:37:00] have no kids on me. Like, that's, that might be like the basis of that [00:37:05] promise of like, I know you out in these streets, don't have no other kids on me.
[00:37:09] Bruce Anthony: Right.[00:37:10]
[00:37:10] Jay Aundrea: These are it. them getting divorced and him getting remarried like that, [00:37:15] nullifies that because y'all not even married no more. So there was really no reason to even bring [00:37:20] up that promise that had nothing to do with the two youngest children. So [00:37:25] even if. She didn't say that explicitly, [00:37:30] like just bringing it up. What was the point of doing [00:37:35] that? Like that seems messed up.
[00:37:36] Bruce Anthony: Yeah, so because of this [00:37:40] conversation,
remember there's two younger brothers
and they're tight [00:37:45] because to them they're brothers, right? Like they are full brothers [00:37:50] and there's an age gap. But this convers, but this conversation [00:37:55] had them realize that there's always been kind of this deep resentment [00:38:00] towards them.
So they were like, oh, okay. Maybe [00:38:05] people was humor in us, but now we're adults. They still look at us as little [00:38:10] kids or not even supposed to be here. Maybe don't think that we have any claim to be a part of [00:38:15] us. Meanwhile, we were the closest to dad because dad was actually around [00:38:20] when, when we were growing up.
Like we know him better
than they probably know [00:38:25] him because he wasn't around, which also has some resentment that they got the [00:38:30] life that the other four never got,
[00:38:32] Jay Aundrea: Yeah.
[00:38:33] Bruce Anthony: and they're pissed off [00:38:35] about it.
[00:38:36] Jay Aundrea: yeah, but that's, again, that's not your [00:38:40] sibling's fault. If you have, if you had an issue with that, you should have raised that with [00:38:45] your father. Like, that's not your sibling's fault.
[00:38:48] Bruce Anthony: Hmm.
[00:38:48] Jay Aundrea: they were born into a [00:38:50] family just like you were born into a family. Like, it doesn't, doesn't make a [00:38:55] difference.
Like, so I just feel like bringing all of that up, [00:39:00] what was the point?
[00:39:01] Bruce Anthony: Right.
[00:39:01] Jay Aundrea: of the day, even if you [00:39:05] feel some type of way about your younger siblings and this, that, and the third, your father [00:39:10] still named you controlling owner
[00:39:14] Bruce Anthony: Right.[00:39:15]
[00:39:15] Jay Aundrea: at the end of the, he didn't make one of them control. Now, if he had made one of the younger siblings controlling [00:39:20] owner, and you'd be like, I, okay.
I was here all along. Right. I've been, I've been here all [00:39:25] along. What's up then? Okay. I could say you have some, a leg to [00:39:30] stand on, but the fact that you are, even [00:39:35] with them growing up, he, he knew them growing up. He was close to the two. He [00:39:40] still named you controlling
[00:39:41] Bruce Anthony: Mm-hmm.
[00:39:42] Jay Aundrea: So really at that point, what are you [00:39:45] doing except being petty?
[00:39:46] Bruce Anthony: Oh, let's get to part three. 'cause [00:39:50] pettiness does not end there. So the two brothers are starting to hear [00:39:55] murmurings from two of the older siblings, not the controlling owner [00:40:00] one,
but the two. Two other ones. It just like, Hey man, like why don't we sell [00:40:05] this team? Right? Because the money is starting to get crazy.
And they know that [00:40:10] if the four of them joined together and wanted to sell the team, that they're outnumbered in the vote, [00:40:15] right?
[00:40:15] Jay Aundrea: Mm-hmm.
[00:40:16] Bruce Anthony: So they were like, okay. They worked with their [00:40:20] lawyers and everything and they said, well, people are stressing because the money is getting crazy. Why don't [00:40:25] we do a minority sell?
Well, we sell a small portion of the [00:40:30] franchise. We get some money that we could throw into their pockets, right? [00:40:35] But we still control, we still have absolute control of [00:40:40] the franchise.
So as they're starting to put this together and they're talking to a [00:40:45] couple of siblings, they're trying to call other siblings.
Other siblings ain't answering the phone. I'm [00:40:50] talking about for weeks, not answering the phone. One day the two brothers get called [00:40:55] into an office,
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[00:40:56] Jay Aundrea: The two
[00:40:56] Bruce Anthony: but
the two younger brothers get called into an office, say, [00:41:00] Hey, they wanna meet with you. But some of the people in the business side of the, of the franchise, and they [00:41:05] were like, Hey, we got this offer to sell.
The majority of the team, the [00:41:10] family's gonna still hold about 17% of the the franchise, but the rest of the franchise is [00:41:15] gonna be sold, and the rest of this franchise is gonna be sold for $10 billion, [00:41:20] which means every sibling gets a half a million dollars. [00:41:25] Now the brothers was like, we don't really want it.[00:41:30]
10 billion.
[00:41:32] Jay Aundrea: Math? 10 billion
[00:41:33] Bruce Anthony: Yes.
[00:41:34] Jay Aundrea: Uhhuh.[00:41:35]
[00:41:35] Bruce Anthony: All the siblings get half a billion.
[00:41:37] Jay Aundrea: Oh, you say half a million. That's why I was like,
[00:41:39] Bruce Anthony: Oh [00:41:40] no, I, alright look, half a billion is what I'm meant say half a billion.
[00:41:43] Jay Aundrea: That's a, that's a [00:41:45] lot
[00:41:46] Bruce Anthony: That's a lot. That's a lot of money. So the siblings that were kind of [00:41:50] on the fence thinking they was gonna get tens of millions or maybe, you know, a few hundred million is [00:41:55] like, wait a minute, I'm going $500 million.
Let's sell. The brothers are, are thinking [00:42:00] about what their dad always said.
[00:42:01] Jay Aundrea: Mm-hmm.
[00:42:02] Bruce Anthony: Dad always said he wanted us to have [00:42:05] control. That's the reason why we were talking about selling a minority share. We would still get some cheddar cheese. [00:42:10] It wouldn't be nearly as much, but we would still hold on to dad's dream that we would control it.
Now [00:42:15] we're selling the control away. Except the sister that was [00:42:20] the designated, the owner negotiated a deal. Even though she said she did [00:42:25] negotiate a deal. She said it was an offer. There was no negotiation that even though they would sell 10%, I [00:42:30] mean 10, they would sell the majority of this, uh, franchise.
She would still get to [00:42:35] stay on as the like controller, like [00:42:40] the, the head boss of the entire franchise. And they were just like, this [00:42:45] sounds like the bull, but everybody was supposed to keep their job right?
Everybody was still [00:42:50] supposed to keep their job, still have a part in the organization. If you wanted to have a park, cool.
If you wanted to go away, [00:42:55] fine. So the boys was like, look, it's four to two. We don't have no choice. We could try to fight [00:43:00] this in court because if we feel like they didn't really try to like get the best offer [00:43:05] available, they just took this offer and ran with it. Um, but they were like, it's not worth [00:43:10] it.
We'll still have a place in the organization. It's all good. We'll be [00:43:15] set for life. Our kids will be set for life and we won't win anyway. So [00:43:20] unanimously it was voted six to zero to do this. As soon as the [00:43:25] deal was finalized, couple of weeks later, [00:43:30] everybody was called into the office.
All the siblings, well, five of them,[00:43:35]
and they were all fired
except for that one that had [00:43:40] control.
She's still on.
[00:43:42] Jay Aundrea: because she was smart enough to [00:43:45] negotiate her position, being part of the contract. The other [00:43:50] siblings probably didn't have it in writing.
[00:43:54] Bruce Anthony: [00:43:55] They didn't even get to see the deal. They just, her sister just said that it was an [00:44:00] offer. She said there was no negotiation. 'cause if there was a negotia negotiation, they would [00:44:05] all have to be brought in because there are six owners,
right.
[00:44:10] She said it was an offer. They said they didn't even get to look at the paperwork.
They was just like, this is the offer. [00:44:15] We gotta take it or leave it. But somehow. The person that [00:44:20] purchased the majority was like, well, no, we wanna keep you on to be like the head, which would kind [00:44:25] of make sense. Like, you wanna keep the CEO on. But then, you know, the rest of the siblings were [00:44:30] fired and the brothers learned through back channels.
It was definitely the sister that that [00:44:35] gave the okay to fire 'em.
[00:44:37] Jay Aundrea: Yeah, because again, she's controlling owner.[00:44:40]
[00:44:40] Bruce Anthony: No, she's not controlling the owner. She's just Now that she's quote unquote [00:44:45] Yes. Basically she's CEO. Yeah, she's CEO. Yeah.
Yeah.[00:44:50]
[00:44:50] Jay Aundrea: Um, yeah. So it would come from like the person who has the [00:44:55] rope HR in and figure it would, it would come [00:45:00] from her like,
[00:45:01] Bruce Anthony: It could've came from the owners as well. The owners could have jumped her. They could [00:45:05] have, because the owners are now the board. The board is actually the boss boss.[00:45:10]
But I bet you're wondering what franchise I'm talking about.
[00:45:14] Jay Aundrea: Yes.[00:45:15]
[00:45:15] Bruce Anthony: Did you g Could you guess what it was?
[00:45:17] Jay Aundrea: No,
[00:45:18] Bruce Anthony: Well, you know, it's basketball. It is [00:45:20] the Los Angeles Lakers.
[00:45:23] Jay Aundrea: really.
[00:45:24] Bruce Anthony: Yes, [00:45:25] the Los Angeles Lakers. And now the person that owns the Dodgers [00:45:30] also owns the Lakers. And so I was reading this article and I was like, [00:45:35] wow. And at the end of it, none of her siblings talk to her anymore.[00:45:40]
[00:45:40] Jay Aundrea: Yeah, of course. Even though they're all. [00:45:45] Filthy rich
[00:45:46] Bruce Anthony: 50 Rich,
[00:45:47] Jay Aundrea: own a piece of the team.
[00:45:49] Bruce Anthony: [00:45:50] 17%, they all still own 17%. And, but when I was [00:45:55] reading the article, I was like, yeah, you gotta make tough decisions. [00:46:00] But it's, it's the way that she was moving that didn't sit well with me. [00:46:05] Like I.
[00:46:05] Jay Aundrea: but could No, I'm, I, I agree with [00:46:10] you, but I think also at that point in her mind, she's like, I can't trust [00:46:15] of them,
[00:46:16] Bruce Anthony: Yeah, that's true
because the brothers, the younger brothers,
[00:46:19] Jay Aundrea: to [00:46:20] protect me
[00:46:21] Bruce Anthony: right? Yeah.
[00:46:22] Jay Aundrea: and [00:46:25] everybody else. Hey. And, and, and also, y'all [00:46:30] can't get mad if you didn't take time to have your [00:46:35] lawyers go over this offer.
[00:46:38] Bruce Anthony: They said they didn't have enough [00:46:40] time before the vote. But also that all,
yeah, [00:46:45] Dean like, nah, I need to look at the details of this.
But it's tough when you got other siblings [00:46:50] who don't really, don't really care to be a part of it anymore, and they're like, $500 million. [00:46:55] Like what are we talking about here?
Like, think about it. If the three of us was in that [00:47:00] type of position,
[00:47:00] Jay Aundrea: Mm-hmm.
[00:47:02] Bruce Anthony: right?
Say it was this podcast [00:47:05] and our brother had a piece of it and we were three co-owners. Right? But I had [00:47:10] the controlling like say so,
and we got a offer[00:47:15]
where all of us would get half a billion.
[00:47:17] Jay Aundrea: Yeah.
[00:47:18] Bruce Anthony: But I was like, I don't know [00:47:20] about this.
Y'all would be like, uh, you better take half [00:47:25] that billion.
[00:47:26] Jay Aundrea: No, I wanna see the paperwork. Like, I'm sorry, I wanna see the offer and [00:47:30] I wanna, I, because here's the thing, how often has there been a [00:47:35] takeover of a company or something like that, or a merger and everything? Oh yeah. Everybody will still [00:47:40] have their jobs and then a few weeks, a month in everybody from the [00:47:45] old company is fired.
[00:47:46] Bruce Anthony: Yeah.
[00:47:48] Jay Aundrea: obviously, so for [00:47:50] me, if I realize, okay, yeah, I'm getting a lot of money, but I'm losing [00:47:55] controlling interest and I'm just relying on the word of somebody I [00:48:00] kind of
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[00:48:00] Jay Aundrea: trust, even though they're my sibling, only kind of trust at this point. 'cause we've [00:48:05] been back and forth through them courts like, and then especially if I'm the two [00:48:10] youngest, I, I really don't trust you 'cause you was acting like I ain't even supposed to be here.
[00:48:13] Bruce Anthony: Right,[00:48:15]
[00:48:15] Jay Aundrea: Um. I wanna wanna see that paperwork [00:48:20] and make sure that I'm protected and make sure I'm covered. And if not, then I'm not doing it. [00:48:25] And if I get overruled, then I get overruled. If you, if you and our brother [00:48:30] decide to go forward with it and I get overruled, then so be it. But if I get [00:48:35] screwed in the end, it's to hell with the two of y'all, because I said from the beginning, [00:48:40] I wanna make sure that I'm protected in this deal
[00:48:43] Bruce Anthony: [00:48:45] right. Yeah.
[00:48:46] Jay Aundrea: didn't make sure that that happened.
[00:48:48] Bruce Anthony: It's just, oh, another [00:48:50] thing that, uh, I left out in the interview, the other [00:48:55] sister, so you got the one sister that had the control answers. The other sister who had, who worked for the [00:49:00] organization does some things for the organization, made a comment
[00:49:04] Jay Aundrea: Mm-hmm.[00:49:05]
[00:49:05] Bruce Anthony: that said, and yeah, the other two, they may have been upset about everything, but [00:49:10] let's not forget they're not even supposed to be a part of this because [00:49:15] they weren't supposed to be here.
So that is the sentiment [00:49:20] from at least two of the older four siblings
[00:49:23] Jay Aundrea: Yeah.
[00:49:24] Bruce Anthony: [00:49:25] and man, would that hurt
because you know that those [00:49:30] two don't do nothing but look up to the older siblings because [00:49:35] they're like, cool, you got to know Dad when this thing was building. Tell me [00:49:40] stories. And they are, they are heartbroken.
And they were just like.
[00:49:44] Jay Aundrea: not [00:49:45] their fault. gotta understand the context in which that promise was made, [00:49:50] because I guarantee you it was, she's, she's saying, don't you have no [00:49:55] outside babies on me?
[00:49:56] Bruce Anthony: Mm-hmm.
[00:49:57] Jay Aundrea: But they were divorced and he was remarried, [00:50:00] so it's not the same thing. And even if it is. They're promised, [00:50:05] don't have nothing to do with the two lives that exist regardless. [00:50:10] And that just lets me know that y'all don't look at them like your [00:50:15] siblings
[00:50:15] Bruce Anthony: Yep,
[00:50:16] Jay Aundrea: at all.
[00:50:17] Bruce Anthony: yep,
[00:50:17] Jay Aundrea: look at them as your father's [00:50:20] other children,
[00:50:20] Bruce Anthony: yep. Exactly.
[00:50:24] Jay Aundrea: and that's messed [00:50:25] up.
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[00:50:25] Bruce Anthony: It is,
[00:50:26] Jay Aundrea: the end of the day, I have no sympathy for any of them because y'all [00:50:30] are half billionaires.
[00:50:31] Bruce Anthony: oh, money does not [00:50:35] reduce your trauma. Okay. There are ha
[00:50:40] look.
[00:50:40] Jay Aundrea: pay for the therapy, boo. Like I'm,
[00:50:43] Bruce Anthony: I, this is gonna be, [00:50:45] this is gonna be real sappy,
but if I had the choice of half a billion [00:50:50] dollars, but I don't get to have you and my brother, you and our [00:50:55] brother in our, in my life.
I'm not taking the money
[00:50:58] Jay Aundrea: Yeah.
[00:50:59] Bruce Anthony: A billion. [00:51:00] I throw y'all a little bit and then keep on rolling, but
I'm joking. [00:51:05] But there's just, there's just some, I know people can't be [00:51:10] bought and it's just sad because I see so many [00:51:15] stories of siblings that fall out and y'all know what I'm talking about.
If you listening to watching [00:51:20] the show, you might not be talking to a sibling right now. You may have been talking to a sibling for 10, 15 [00:51:25] years. At one time,
y'all played in the sandbox together.
[00:51:28] Jay Aundrea: Right.
[00:51:29] Bruce Anthony: At one [00:51:30] time, y'all was in
[00:51:30] Jay Aundrea: there was 31 years between you.
[00:51:33] Bruce Anthony: there.
[00:51:33] Jay Aundrea: of the matter [00:51:35] is, it, it honestly, it, especially with that age gap, it was [00:51:40] really incumbent upon them older siblings to foster that relationship with their younger siblings.
[00:51:44] Bruce Anthony: Yeah.[00:51:45]
[00:51:45] Jay Aundrea: little kids and y'all were grown people. And the fact that you look at [00:51:50] them as them two over there let me know that his chances are y'all look at [00:51:55] the four of y'all. That four, that first four, y'all look at each other as them over [00:52:00] there
[00:52:00] Bruce Anthony: Mm
[00:52:01] Jay Aundrea: because just the way y'all are handling each other in this entire scenario, [00:52:05] y'all were never siblings.
[00:52:07] Bruce Anthony: mm
[00:52:07] Jay Aundrea: were always each other as just [00:52:10] competition.
[00:52:11] Bruce Anthony: But you know where it all stems from whose fault it really is.
[00:52:14] Jay Aundrea: [00:52:15] The father,
[00:52:15] Bruce Anthony: Yes, absolutely. Right. Dr. Jerry Buss. Great [00:52:20] man. But damn, you was, damn, you was a horrible family man.
[00:52:23] Jay Aundrea: I mean, it's also like [00:52:25] the time, right? The patriarchy thing
[00:52:27] Bruce Anthony: Yeah.
[00:52:28] Jay Aundrea: him not being able to [00:52:30] really like in his daughter to take over, even though she ended up [00:52:35] taking over eventually anyway, because times changed,
[00:52:38] Bruce Anthony: And wields a lot of power [00:52:40] in the NBA governors, 'cause that's what they're called, not called owners anymore, they're called governors. The NBA [00:52:45] Governors Association. She wields a, she has, she got a lot of res, A lot of [00:52:50] respect. A lot of respect.
[00:52:52] Jay Aundrea: just, you know, making sure [00:52:55] that. First of all, that whole thing about [00:53:00] don't have no more kids, that should have never been shared amongst the children in the first[00:53:05]
[00:53:05] Bruce Anthony: Well, the mother was sick, so that could have came out. I think she had cancer, so because that could have came [00:53:10] out while she was sick because they just found out about it. Like it was just recently within the [00:53:15] last, I don't know, 10 years, maybe, maybe not even 10 years.
[00:53:18] Jay Aundrea: treating the, they [00:53:20] didn't need that. That was just honestly kindling on the fire.
[00:53:24] Bruce Anthony: But the [00:53:25] mama may have did that on purpose.
[00:53:26] Jay Aundrea: she might have, I mean, we don't [00:53:30] know. We
[00:53:30] Bruce Anthony: We don't know.
[00:53:31] Jay Aundrea: the inner workings of rich
[00:53:32] Bruce Anthony: We don't know, but it's crazy.
[00:53:34] Jay Aundrea: a [00:53:35] different code.
[00:53:36] Bruce Anthony: It's crazy. So I wanted to tell you this story. A simple
[00:53:38] Jay Aundrea: Point. It's a [00:53:40] show on Netflix, Kate Hudson. very, very similar. Except
[00:53:44] Bruce Anthony: you [00:53:45] told me about that. I said, this is Jeannie Bus. They just stole Jeannie Bus's story. Yeah, that's Jeannie Bus. [00:53:50] Yeah.
[00:53:50] Jay Aundrea: yeah, yeah.
[00:53:51] Bruce Anthony: Anyway.
[00:53:52] Jay Aundrea: yeah. But in that one, [00:53:55] her. brothers are just like, one has a drug problem and like the other two [00:54:00] are just inept.
[00:54:01] Bruce Anthony: Yeah. Yeah.
[00:54:02] Jay Aundrea: then there's a, [00:54:05] sibling that I guess pops up and [00:54:10] is just trying to find their place. But the, what about this oldest daughter?[00:54:15]
[00:54:15] Bruce Anthony: Look.
[00:54:16] Jay Aundrea: She just was like, look, y'all bucking and I don't really want no
[00:54:19] Bruce Anthony: Yeah. Yeah. [00:54:20] She just wanted it. She didn't ask for nothing. Didn't want nothing. You, you know, just like, Hey, just wanted know my [00:54:25] family. And they were like, we got an older sister. Like, that's kind of crazy. I don't know.
[00:54:29] Jay Aundrea: But she ain't getting none [00:54:30] of that
[00:54:30] Bruce Anthony: I don't, I don't know the details. I think, well, she wasn't in the, in the trust in the will, [00:54:35] so maybe they, I mean, maybe one of them, the slaughter her a little bit.
I don't know. Depending on [00:54:40] how close they get. But that's enough. A sibling talk. We gonna [00:54:45] talk about choosing teams to fight for your life. I'm gonna explain it all. [00:54:50] We gonna get into that next.
[00:55:00] Bruce Anthony: [00:54:55] [00:55:00] I sent you something Jay
and I was, and it was this Instagram [00:55:05] posting that had four teams of four,
and you had to choose two teams [00:55:10] to defend your life while two other teams was hunting you.
And a lot of the people [00:55:15] that were on the teams, I didn't know, but I thought that was an interesting game. So I re [00:55:20] I created or remixed the game myself and I was, [00:55:25] and I said I gave, Hmm. Eventually, I'm gonna get this down. Ladies and gentlemen. I've been talking [00:55:30] all day, so bear with me.
There was 10 people that I created a list of, right?[00:55:35]
[00:55:35] Jay Aundrea: Okay.
[00:55:36] Bruce Anthony: And you have to choose four to rescue you 'cause [00:55:40] you've been kidnapped.
[00:55:41] Jay Aundrea: Okay.
[00:55:43] Bruce Anthony: All right? So you gotta choose four of these [00:55:45] 10 people to rescue you,
and then you gotta choose the four that they [00:55:50] gotta go against. And all eight of these people come out of the 10 of this list I'm about to [00:55:55] give you.
[00:55:55] Jay Aundrea: Okay.
[00:55:56] Bruce Anthony: Now, in the thing that I sent you, it was 16 people, [00:56:00] four groups of four.
One thing I noticed, not a damn woman in [00:56:05] here,
but in my list, we have women in the [00:56:10] list.
And who's on this list? What is this list of? It's a list of [00:56:15] action characters.
[00:56:16] Jay Aundrea: Okay.
[00:56:17] Bruce Anthony: So you got number [00:56:20] one
[00:56:20] Jay Aundrea: a piece of paper. 'cause I,
[00:56:21] Bruce Anthony: with Done You.
[00:56:22] Jay Aundrea: all 10.
[00:56:23] Bruce Anthony: I thought you got the The rundown. [00:56:25] So I put it on the rundown.
[00:56:25] Jay Aundrea: Oh, it's on there. Oh.
[00:56:27] Bruce Anthony: Yeah, it's on the rundown for you, so I'm just gonna, I'm doing it for the [00:56:30] audience.
Alright. That's behind the scenes in front of the camera. So [00:56:35] the 10 people are Jack Reacher,
[00:56:39] Jay Aundrea: Okay.
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[00:56:39] Bruce Anthony: [00:56:40] Jason Bourne,
[00:56:41] Jay Aundrea: Mm-hmm.
[00:56:42] Bruce Anthony: Ethan Hunt,
[00:56:43] Jay Aundrea: Mm-hmm.
[00:56:44] Bruce Anthony: [00:56:45] James Bond, uh, the new dude, James Bond.[00:56:50]
[00:56:50] Jay Aundrea: What? new dude?
[00:56:52] Bruce Anthony: The dude, the, the,
the recent James Bond. [00:56:55]
[00:56:55] Jay Aundrea: geez. I can't remember his name, but go ahead.
[00:56:58] Bruce Anthony: Yeah.
Yeah.
[00:56:59] Jay Aundrea: go. [00:57:00] Yeah.
[00:57:01] Bruce Anthony: Byron Mills taken. That's all you need [00:57:05] to do is know Taken
John Wick, Robert McCall,[00:57:10]
AKA, the equalizer. Sarah Connor. [00:57:15] You know Sarah Connor, the mother of John Connor. Just think terminated too, [00:57:20] the bride.
[00:57:21] Jay Aundrea: Craig. Daniel
[00:57:22] Bruce Anthony: Daniel Craig is James Bond, the [00:57:25] bride from Kill Bill Uma Thermo's character and Natasha Romanoff,[00:57:30]
[00:57:30] Jay Aundrea: kiddo.
[00:57:31] Bruce Anthony: Beatrice Killer.
The bride kill Bill and then the [00:57:35] final person, Natasha Romanoff, also known as the Black Widow. [00:57:40] Now Jay, of those 10 people choose four [00:57:45] That must that you want to come and rescue you. [00:57:50] Now there are a team of four that are band together to come and rescue you against [00:57:55] a team of four that kidnaps you that they gotta fight.
It's gotta be four and four [00:58:00] fight. So who's your four that you picking?
[00:58:02] Jay Aundrea: Okay. So I'm gonna obviously [00:58:05] have Robert McCall, the Equalizer
[00:58:08] Bruce Anthony: Okay.
[00:58:09] Jay Aundrea: John [00:58:10] Wick.
[00:58:10] Bruce Anthony: Okay.
[00:58:11] Jay Aundrea: Um. Why? Because, [00:58:15] um, have gone up against just one [00:58:20] person. Two whole rooms of people. Whole teams of people, [00:58:25] entire mafias, entire countries. Uh, and they survived. [00:58:30] So, okay, so they, they gonna be first, [00:58:35] next is gonna be Brian Mills, uh, Liam SSOs from Taken. [00:58:40] Uh, why? Because a lot of people got taken and he got 'em back. [00:58:45] Okay. And that's just the truth. Uh, and [00:58:50] last is going to be [00:58:55] Mm, it's a toss up. Ooh, it's a toss up. [00:59:00] But I think it's gonna be beat's kiddo because [00:59:05] again, the. Went up against the crazy 88, knows the five [00:59:10] point palm exploding heart technique. so like [00:59:15] this, this is somebody who's going to, she killed Bill. I mean, she's [00:59:20] accomplished the thing. Um, so, you know, uh, she went through a [00:59:25] lot of people to do it.
Um, uh, went from being [00:59:30] just paralyzed to whooping
[00:59:34] Bruce Anthony: Everybody. [00:59:35] Yeah, all of it.
[00:59:36] Jay Aundrea: that would be my four.
[00:59:37] Bruce Anthony: Okay. Now [00:59:40] I'm going to take that as your top four,
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[00:59:43] Jay Aundrea: Yes.
[00:59:43] Bruce Anthony: right?
So. [00:59:45] That means that they're going against people that kidnapped you.
Which would be your bottom [00:59:50] four.
[00:59:50] Jay Aundrea: Yes.
[00:59:51] Bruce Anthony: Who would be your bottom four?
[00:59:54] Jay Aundrea: [00:59:55] Biden four. We gonna start with Sarah Connor. Sorry girl.
[00:59:58] Bruce Anthony: What? She [01:00:00] fought a terminator and won
twice.
[01:00:02] Jay Aundrea: show. Did she show? [01:00:05] Did um, she show Did. And, and, and that's cool. [01:00:10] But um, no, uh, sis um, [01:00:15] that was just two fights. Um, and you barely got out them two fights [01:00:20] you won and that's great. But that was two fights
[01:00:24] Bruce Anthony: [01:00:25] Okay.
[01:00:26] Jay Aundrea: and you barely got out from two fights.
[01:00:28] Bruce Anthony: Okay.
[01:00:29] Jay Aundrea: [01:00:30] next is gonna be James Bond,
[01:00:32] Bruce Anthony: Alright.
[01:00:33] Jay Aundrea: Daniel Craigs James [01:00:35] Bond. Great athletic, uh, got can fight [01:00:40] get slip in the stuff. Uh, all of that. Um, very [01:00:45] cool. I don't know about his kidnapping skills. [01:00:50] I don't know that they're that good. Are they that good? I dunno.
[01:00:53] Bruce Anthony: They've already got you. They've [01:00:55] already got you. They've gotta make sure that they keep you. So it's more like a defense [01:01:00] skill, not necessarily kidnapping.
[01:01:02] Jay Aundrea: Okay, well, [01:01:05] again, great fighter. I, I just really see him in a lot of [01:01:10] one-on-one matchups,
[01:01:10] Bruce Anthony: Okay.
[01:01:11] Jay Aundrea: and I'm really looking for people that'll take a whole, [01:01:15] just be in Italy and just take on Italy.
[01:01:17] Bruce Anthony: Okay. To take on all the Italy. [01:01:20] Okay.
[01:01:21] Jay Aundrea: and I don't, I, I've seen James's a lot of one-on-one fights.
[01:01:24] Bruce Anthony: [01:01:25] Alright.
[01:01:25] Jay Aundrea: next is gonna be Ethan Hunt. Um, [01:01:30] Uh, mission Impossible.
He can get into stuff. He can, he can accomplish impossible [01:01:35] missions.
[01:01:35] Bruce Anthony: Right.
[01:01:36] Jay Aundrea: uh, again, a lot of one-on-one [01:01:40] matchups with that. Um, and [01:01:45] truly the bottom of the list. [01:01:50] Truly is gonna be Jack Reacher.
[01:01:53] Bruce Anthony: Wow, what
[01:01:54] Jay Aundrea: [01:01:55] is, yeah.
[01:01:56] Bruce Anthony: Whater is the bottom of the list?
[01:01:58] Jay Aundrea: Reacher's gonna be the bottom of the [01:02:00] list. E even beyond, because I don't think Reacher could have beat Terminator[01:02:05]
[01:02:05] Bruce Anthony: I don't think anybody on this list can be determinated besides Sarah Connor.
[01:02:09] Jay Aundrea: [01:02:10] Bull.
[01:02:11] Bruce Anthony: Okay.
[01:02:11] Jay Aundrea: was about to say, but No,
[01:02:14] Bruce Anthony: Okay.
[01:02:14] Jay Aundrea: [01:02:15] John Wick, Brian Mills, Robert McCall, they can beat [01:02:20] Terminator.
[01:02:21] Bruce Anthony: Okay.
[01:02:22] Jay Aundrea: Um, [01:02:25] Richard's gonna be at the, at the bottom.
[01:02:26] Bruce Anthony: Wow.
[01:02:28] Jay Aundrea: Yeah. And then, uh, Jason [01:02:30] born and Natasha Romanoff are kinda riding somewhere in the middle.
[01:02:33] Bruce Anthony: Wow. So your [01:02:35] list, the bottom four is Sarah Connor, James Bond, Daniel [01:02:40] Craig's, James Bond, Ethan Hunt, and Jack Reacher. And your top four [01:02:45] are Robert McCall. John Wick taken Bill Byron [01:02:50] Mills and Kill Bill.
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[01:02:51] Jay Aundrea: Yes,
[01:02:53] Bruce Anthony: Oh, okay.[01:02:55]
[01:02:55] Jay Aundrea: because again, I'm looking at can you fight [01:03:00] scores of people
[01:03:01] Bruce Anthony: Right. No, I get that
[01:03:02] Jay Aundrea: own and [01:03:05] walk away? Barely hurt. Honestly.
[01:03:07] Bruce Anthony: right. No, I get that.
[01:03:09] Jay Aundrea: Can you [01:03:10] handle multiple kinds of weapons? We've seen Robert McCall just, I mean, he [01:03:15] worked in that Home Depot esque, uh,
[01:03:19] Bruce Anthony: And took on the whole [01:03:20] Russian mob. Mm-hmm.
[01:03:21] Jay Aundrea: took on a whole month with just stuff around the store.
[01:03:23] Bruce Anthony: Yeah. Yeah.[01:03:25]
[01:03:25] Jay Aundrea: Okay. Uh, Brian Mills, he didn't know where his daughter was taken.
[01:03:29] Bruce Anthony: He [01:03:30] didn't.
[01:03:30] Jay Aundrea: He didn't know where the hell she was, but he found her and he got
[01:03:33] Bruce Anthony: He did. He did [01:03:35] find her.
[01:03:36] Jay Aundrea: Okay. He found her in the nick of time. Okay. It killed a lot of [01:03:40] people to do it.
[01:03:41] Bruce Anthony: He did?
[01:03:41] Jay Aundrea: and and then, then again, what else can I say about [01:03:45] Beatrice kiddo?
Like
[01:03:46] Bruce Anthony: Mm-hmm.
[01:03:47] Jay Aundrea: had a list
[01:03:49] Bruce Anthony: She
[01:03:49] Jay Aundrea: through that [01:03:50] list
[01:03:50] Bruce Anthony: of the tops of the top assassins,
dare we [01:03:55] say, a bunch of John Wicks
[01:03:56] Jay Aundrea: Yes. Who all had different [01:04:00] specialties and all had different and she [01:04:05] ly went through
[01:04:05] Bruce Anthony: methodically. Yeah.
Okay. My turn [01:04:10] two for the people that are my top four, the ones I want to [01:04:15] come save me.
Two of them exactly the same as you. Robert Baca, John [01:04:20] Wick. Now these aren't my top two. These [01:04:25] are two of the top four because what they do best is [01:04:30] equalized and they going to equalize something.
[01:04:32] Jay Aundrea: They going to equalize it. Yes.
[01:04:34] Bruce Anthony: [01:04:35] people are going to accuse me for my next two to, for, you know, Bruce, he just [01:04:40] trying to be this whole equality stuff.
No, these some [01:04:45] badass women.
And the first one who's top on the list, [01:04:50] who was one of the bottom people for you is Sarah Connor, [01:04:55] because she took on two different from [01:05:00] the future terminators. Okay. They were so [01:05:05] bad, they took out whole police armies and didn't have a [01:05:10] dent. You couldn't kill them, and she didn't take out just one.
She [01:05:15] took out. Two, the liquid metal one was even more [01:05:20] advanced 'cause the first terminator came back and he couldn't even beat 'em by himself. They had to tag [01:05:25] team together. She even beat two terminated no matter how big, no matter matter how [01:05:30] bad John Wick and, and uh, uh, [01:05:35] Robert McCall has been. They ain't fought no damn [01:05:40] terminators.
Okay? A Terminator would've killed everybody on them stairs [01:05:45] and got up the stairs way quicker than John Wick did. A [01:05:50] terminator would've went, he would've stood out front and just lay [01:05:55] level the, the Russian mob in that Home Depot. It's a Terminator. So [01:06:00] the first answer is Sarah Connor.
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[01:06:03] Jay Aundrea: I think you still [01:06:05] get like, no, no shade like she did. [01:06:10] Get land the killing blow on two [01:06:15] Terminators, right?
[01:06:16] Bruce Anthony: She killed them both. She killed them both. [01:06:20] She killed the first one with no weapons,
[01:06:23] Jay Aundrea: she crushed him with the, the [01:06:25] hydraulic press.
[01:06:26] Bruce Anthony: but she had to fight a terminator with no weapons.
[01:06:29] Jay Aundrea: she [01:06:30] had to run away and stay alive until
[01:06:34] Bruce Anthony: Still [01:06:35] the Terminator.
[01:06:36] Jay Aundrea: you, right. Did she fight a terminator? Uh, [01:06:40] you know, so here's the thing about a Terminator. That [01:06:45] what, and I, I don't think you, what you understand, okay, they're really set up for these [01:06:50] kind of mass type of things, but you put 'em one-on-one with
[01:06:54] Bruce Anthony: [01:06:55] That's, that's some bull. I, I'm not, you just trying to stretch it?
No, you're just trying to stretch it.
[01:06:59] Jay Aundrea: like they're [01:07:00] not as equipped to take, because ain't no reason [01:07:05] why. Honestly and truly, Sarah should have beat two Terminators,[01:07:10]
[01:07:10] Bruce Anthony: Uh, but she did.
[01:07:11] Jay Aundrea: T 1000.
[01:07:12] Bruce Anthony: But she did. [01:07:15] And the second time she was trained, remember how ripped she was? She was trained. She [01:07:20] was trained.
[01:07:21] Jay Aundrea: No, I get it.
[01:07:21] Bruce Anthony: And then she came back for a fourth one and was just as [01:07:25] ripped and was killing Terminators again. Sarah Conner. Let me finish my list [01:07:30] 'cause there's another female on the list.
[01:07:32] Jay Aundrea: All right.
[01:07:33] Bruce Anthony: Now we talk about the [01:07:35] John Wicks
and we talk about the Beres kiddos, their assassins.[01:07:40]
[01:07:40] Jay Aundrea: Yes.
[01:07:42] Bruce Anthony: But Black Widow has literally fought [01:07:45] aliens. Okay? She's fought Avengers [01:07:50] and Aliens.
[01:07:52] Jay Aundrea: Yes, but has she fought them [01:07:55] on masks? I'm looking at if you are coming to rescue [01:08:00] me and you're up against four solid, like even though they're at the bottom of my list, they're [01:08:05] obviously at the top of like humans being able to accomplish incredible [01:08:10] things, right? Like though, I mean Sarah Connor still, I couldn't beat no [01:08:15] Terminator. like they're at the bottom of that list of 10 amazing people. [01:08:20] Like let's put that in perspective. I'm looking for people, [01:08:25] you gotta go up against these four people that got me kidnapped for some
[01:08:28] Bruce Anthony: Yeah. They, they,
[01:08:29] Jay Aundrea: think I'm a [01:08:30] computer scientist and I'm not. I'm a data scientist. I can't hack that mainframe. [01:08:35] Okay,
[01:08:36] Bruce Anthony: I,
[01:08:36] Jay Aundrea: pick the wrong person.
[01:08:37] Bruce Anthony: Jay, she, she,
[01:08:39] Jay Aundrea: can [01:08:40] shoot a gun. She can flip
[01:08:41] Bruce Anthony: she took on aliens, multiple aliens. Remember an [01:08:45] Avengers? They was coming down from the sky. She was out there fighting.
[01:08:49] Jay Aundrea: She was looking [01:08:50] at him,
[01:08:50] Bruce Anthony: No, she was fighting.
[01:08:52] Jay Aundrea: she was shooting, and she'd do a [01:08:55] little thing where she'd jump on you and wrap her legs around your neck and flip, and flip you
[01:08:59] Bruce Anthony: Okay. [01:09:00] But she's also an assassin and is also beating up large groupings of [01:09:05] people. The, she's the black widow. She's the main assassin
[01:09:08] Jay Aundrea: Yeah. No, I, and [01:09:10] I
[01:09:10] Bruce Anthony: shield. Snatch her up and she's like, shield was like this, the [01:09:15] assassin. She's batter than John Wick.
[01:09:18] Jay Aundrea: no, I don't, I don't [01:09:20] know. I don't
[01:09:20] Bruce Anthony: Yeah. Yeah. She battered than John Wick.
[01:09:22] Jay Aundrea: John Wick four and so I just [01:09:25] like,
[01:09:26] Bruce Anthony: that's my top four.
Sarah Conna, Natasha [01:09:30] Romanoff, John Wick, and Robert McCall.
[01:09:34] Jay Aundrea: Okay.
[01:09:34] Bruce Anthony: Now my [01:09:35] bottom four, two of them are going to be similar to yours[01:09:40]
'cause Daniel Craig, James Bond got his ass whooped a lot
[01:09:43] Jay Aundrea: A lot.
[01:09:44] Bruce Anthony: and [01:09:45] Ethan Hunt. I done seen him get whooped a lot. [01:09:50] So I'm gonna go ahead and take them out.
[01:09:52] Jay Aundrea: Yeah.
[01:09:53] Bruce Anthony: Jason Bourne, he gotta [01:09:55] go too.
[01:09:56] Jay Aundrea: I was on the fence about that. Uh, [01:10:00] to me, um, you know, it was kind of, [01:10:05] he kinda snuck in like sort of like middle of the road
[01:10:08] Bruce Anthony: Yeah. [01:10:10] Um, but he gotta go. And then my last one that's gonna surprise you,
[01:10:14] Jay Aundrea: [01:10:15] Mm-hmm.
[01:10:16] Bruce Anthony: that's gonna surprise you. 'cause I can't believe you threw Ja uh, Jack richer out there. That's [01:10:20] crazy taken. And this is the, this is the reason why.
[01:10:24] Jay Aundrea: that [01:10:25] I've been taken.
[01:10:26] Bruce Anthony: Why, right. Right, right, right, right. But he ain't fought no assassins. [01:10:30] And so I'm not putting any assassins below him.[01:10:35]
[01:10:36] Jay Aundrea: Right.
[01:10:36] Bruce Anthony: The bride is not going below him. Jack Reacher isn't [01:10:40] going below him. 'cause I done seen Jack Reacher do the same thing. Taken is [01:10:45] done each and every season. He's been on.
[01:10:47] Jay Aundrea: think about it holistically.[01:10:50]
[01:10:50] Bruce Anthony: I don't
what?
[01:10:51] Jay Aundrea: my three assassins,
[01:10:53] Bruce Anthony: Uhhuh?
[01:10:54] Jay Aundrea: [01:10:55] And then I got the dude specializing in getting people back who've been taken.[01:11:00]
[01:11:00] Bruce Anthony: Yeah. Okay. No,
[01:11:02] Jay Aundrea: that's, that's the team.
[01:11:04] Bruce Anthony: All he said was [01:11:05] he had a special set of skills and he got back his daughter, then his wife, and then I think his [01:11:10] daughter again. Which by the way, why was she kidnapped twice?
[01:11:13] Jay Aundrea: Again, like you ain't learned[01:11:15]
[01:11:15] Bruce Anthony: You ain't learned nothing. You ain't learned nothing. But also, [01:11:20] uh, the people I chose all rescued somebody as well.[01:11:25]
[01:11:25] Jay Aundrea: No, no, no. His movie is literally called Taken.
[01:11:29] Bruce Anthony: [01:11:30] Right. And
Robert McCall went to Turkey. Robert McCall went to [01:11:35] Turkey.
Just 'cause a, he saw a woman crying that she [01:11:40] done lost her child. Her husband took her child and went to Turkey randomly. He ain't have no [01:11:45] connection to her at all. He went to Turkey and got the child back.
[01:11:49] Jay Aundrea: yeah.
[01:11:49] Bruce Anthony: [01:11:50] That's taken.
[01:11:51] Jay Aundrea: Taken three times
[01:11:54] Bruce Anthony: Well,
[01:11:54] Jay Aundrea: [01:11:55] each time he got 'em
[01:11:57] Bruce Anthony: yeah. Well,
[01:11:59] Jay Aundrea: I, I just, [01:12:00] I don't know. I feel like that's the team
[01:12:02] Bruce Anthony: alright, well ladies and gentlemen, I'm gonna [01:12:05] put the list up. Y'all decide who would be your team or four to rescue you and who would be [01:12:10] the bottom four that you would want guarding you so that they lose On that note, Jay, what do you wanna [01:12:15] tell these people out here?
[01:12:18] Jay Aundrea: in real life. You and I [01:12:20] both know and, and the world. Y'all know this too. Ain't no way Sarah Connor is [01:12:25] beating two terminators like it's not
[01:12:26] Bruce Anthony: She did. She did. If, if, if it could be taken three [01:12:30] times, then Sarah Connor could be two terminators, you know.
[01:12:32] Jay Aundrea: said he had a special set of skills. Sarah Connor [01:12:35] didn't have no special set of nothing,
[01:12:36] Bruce Anthony: She learned. She learned and had Ed [01:12:40] got pregnant with a baby on the way. Well, I mean, she got pregnant, so that meant a baby was on the way, but [01:12:45] you know what I mean. Ladies, gentlemen, on that note, I want to thank you for [01:12:50] listening. I wanna thank you for watching, and until next time, as [01:12:55] always, I'll holler.
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